So guys, I promise this is going to be the LAST post in my week-long hair saga.
Even after multiple toners my hair was still just not a shade of blonde you would find in nature. I was surprised how much it affected my self-esteem. However you feel about beauty standards, we feel so much better when we like the way we look.
If only for your own confidence, do things that make you feel good about yourself so that you can move about your life with the confidence that you should!
So after a bit of debating, I went and bought a hair dye kit. There was no salvaging the blonde. I decided to cover it up with a dramatic red. I’ve gone red before and I really like it. I did it myself (after a glass of wine!) for under $10 and in under 30 minutes. Yay for DIY.
I think it looks better, but more importantly; it makes me feel better. I’ve got my confidence back.
I think it’ll be a long time before I dye it again. I’ll be doing lots of deep conditioning to rehab the damage from so much processing. *sigh* lesson learned, ya’ll.
Meanwhile, on the keto-front, I am doing really well. I stopped tracking my food and macros a few weeks ago. I felt like I had the hang of it, plus, tracking everything you eat is really annoying! I step on the scale to check in every few days and so far I have maintained my fighting weight.
I feel really good mentally. I am sleeping better than ever and I still feel calm and focused 95% of the time. My only concern continues to be the dreaded “keto breath”. My husband said it’s gotten a lot better but I talk to so many people at work and I don’t want to have bad breath! I am currently experimenting with chlorophyll. It works amazing well to eliminate bad breath and even body odor. Plus there are plenty of health amazing benefits to using it. I’m definitely going to give it a shot and get feedback from my long suffering husband and report back! 😉
I love, love listening to podcasts. I do so many menial chores around the house every day that are made so much more enriching with a good podcast. When I vaccuum, I put on my hot pink beats and totally zone out. One of my favorites is Dave Asprey’s bulletproof podcast. The guy is a mad genius. I love it. One thing he really emphasizes on the show, and it’s 100% backed by research findings, is the sheer power of positive thinking.
I thought about that today as I had to go in to work with hair that still makes me sad 😦 The ladies I saw at the second salon were able to help, but still…my hair is canary YELLOW. It’s not cute. I tried lots of tricks at home to tone it down. De nada. I even slept with my hair soaked in coconut oil and cocoa powder. All it did was make my hair crunchy. I washed it out and voila! Bright yellow.
I pulled it back and decided that I was just going to have to rock it with confidence. There was nothing to be done and I’m not about to call out of work on account of embarrassing hair.
So I did, and I survived. I decided I’m just going to scrap the whole thing and dye my hair an auburn color to cover up this horrific misdeed. Especially after being told, multiple times, that it didn’t look that bad. Not exactly a look I want!
I did comfort myself with a delicious piece of keto cheesecake for breakfast and that made it all ok for about five minutes! This was so good, guys. This cheesecake, in itself, is worth converting to keto…if you haven’t already! 😉
I found the original recipe at fat for weight loss. Not only was it delicious, but a small (ok, generous, I had another “sliver” after this piece!) kept me full for hours.
The only things I changed was the crust and the cook time. I don’t have shredded coconut so I added much more almond flour. Like 1 1/2 cups. He recommended a cook time of 45 minutes but at that point it was more hot, oozing custard than cake. It needed another 15 minutes at a higher temp. of 345 degrees F.
I’ve never made cheesecake before and I had the impression that it would be hard, but this was really pretty simple. The hardest part is waiting for it to cool before digging in!
Sorry guys, this post is going to be incredibly self-indulgent and possibly even whiney….
Let me set it up for you: I haven’t been to a hair salon in an entire year. Partly because it’s been a tough year for us, with my 9 year old and his extended illness. The other part being that I am a terrible control freak and sitting in the chair of a stranger and putting my hair into their hands gives me more than a little anxiety.
My hair had been growing out and taking on it’s usual “bronde” color. It was looking pretty healthy but really needed a trim. A comment from a loved one about me looking better as a blonde tipped me over into deciding I was going to go blonde again, along with cutting off a couple inches.
Problem is, I don’t know where to go, because I never go! So I looked at some reviews online and made an appt. to get in to a local salon that had good reviews.
What followed was a complete disaster. The lady was obviously used to doing foils, not all over color like I wanted. She did a horrendous job and after washing out the color…the “reveal” was bright orangish-yellow hair. It was truly horrifyingly hideous. Like the worst dye job you can imagine. Like I could have done better with a $4 box kit in my bathroom, in the dark.
I’m not a drama queen (ok, I usually keep it in check) but my eyes welled up with tears. I was devastated. I walked over to the front desk with still almost sopping wet (bright orange!) hair. She looked apologetic but took no responsibility, just offered to blow dry it (like that would help!) As I was loudly proclaiming that it looked terrible and on the verge of an emotional breakdown she told me she wouldn’t charge me as patrons nervously looked on. I grabbed my stuff and ran out, sobbing.
I booked it over to another salon (through a blizzard, at that) with a hat on and eyes puffy from crying.
The new salon ladies (yep, they all pretty much converged to try to fix the disaster) ran copious amounts of two different toners through my hair to tone down the hideous orange. It wasn’t just that. The original stylist had put way more dye on my roots so that they were a day-glow yellow and my ends were much darker. Like a reverse ombre from hell. The end result was still no where near what I wanted but a million times better. I also ordered a blue mask to get it back to an even more natural color and blue shampoo and conditioner.
Moral of the story…don’t dye or do anything drastic on an impulse. At the end of the day, it’s just hair, but still…. Do your research and if you find a good stylist, make her your best friend! And God bless all you good hair colorists and stylists; like the ladies who worked hard to salvage my hair, you are worth your weight in gold!
Sometimes life hands us the proverbial lemons (or sickly-lemon colored hair!). Go ahead and cry and throw a pity party. But then pick yourself up, wipe away the tears, and get on to fixing it!